Breaking The Habbit [My Own Composition]

BREAKING THE HABBIT
By; frankie

It is so upsetting why people have to go from breaking one heart to another. It’s as if breaking free were as easy as playing poker at a casino – totally putting everything down the line. I had been a constant witness to a couple of bad break-ups. I know it’s typical and this is why my heart moans.

As others presumed the sprung of their so called “love story”, others’ has not yet even started. Others are just lucky enough to find their partners, others are not.

When I bump into certain friends with common HEART illnesses, I always try to keep things under the right perspective. I, most of the times, encourage them to hold on. It’s kinda odd why I am the one which is much affected by the misdealing. I just couldn’t bear to see two people breaking up. For me, it is the silliest thing to do especially those of relationships from 2 years and infinity.

If only there were enough spaces for everyone to fill in, then probably no one will be wandering off. I am not in the right position to tell people what to feel or what to do. They absolutely have their reasons for breaking up; and to whatever reasons they have, I totally respect it. But my indulgence if I still wanna push my argument.

To the minds beneath uncertainty, please do try to re-evaluate, by all possible means, everything you wish to reconsider. We are the ones’ held accountable for our actions. Think several times before you leap. Don’t make decisions when you are angry. Never, ever make decisions to which you will regret in the end.   

Most cases, our minds are always tentative. We often commit harsh decisions. This should be stop. If we let the harshness of our decisions control our thoughts, then I wish you tough luck.

I am not saying that you should not break up with your bf or gf even if you had been physically, emotionally and mentally disturbed. I just want you to weigh things. If there are possible ways of healing, then let wounds heal.

I am also not encouraging martyrdom. Don’t ever dare to lay yourself under anyone. We had the right to love and be loved in the same way. It is our living privilege. Love but never love too much.

Everybody just wants to be happy. Tell me, who doesn’t? Please no more tears. It’s hurting inside. This is one of the pettiest conditions I can’t imagine myself with. ‘Tis what kills me! ;(

Have a healthy heart everyone!

Note

- To those who are willing to be counsel, though I am not the “Professional” type, I am willing to extend my advices to anyone. If you feel we have the same thoughts when it comes to matters like this, then what are you waiting for? I need to hear your piece.

- To those who would like to oppose with this write-up feel free to react. I’d like to see some interactions. JUST MESSAGE me through my friendster account.